Need Advice Please no more tears: Im single now....how hard that is to say. I am now alone after 7 years of being in a loving family. Im a male and its hard to ask for advice from friends or family because im a man...i should be strong right ? But this woman has put me on my knees...she has totally destroyed everything i built im my life. So i will ask you all for advice with my situation. She is gone...no chance of working it out....last i heard she was on a date and out drinking with her new friend. One of the reasons we split was due to the fact that i drink. Im not an alcoholic...not hardly..but she said my drinking was an issue with us breaking up...then she goes out with a man who entertains her by taking her out drinking at a bar !!!
So yea im thinking what ur thinking...she used it as an excuse . But here is my problem...5 months ago me and her moved to her hometown to try for a better life. I gave up everything i knew to go with her. EVERYTHING. So we move there and get a place...but she had lived in the area in the past and all the utilities in her name was unpaid from years before. So i put it all in my name. Long story short we didnt work out there and i was told i needed to go back home. So i did and here i am. But now i am thinking of turning off her utilities due to the fact im not in her life now and my name shouldnt be used by her for light and water. But she does have two kids from her previous marriage that i do adore and i dont want them to go without light and water...but at the same time im thinking hey b!tch put ur bills in ur new b/f's name. What would you do ?
Re: Need Advice Please Wolfman: your ex sounds like she's been around the corner more often then not, damn.. sounds a lot like my ex. these type of girls just keep going in circles, man after man dating after dating, grinding after grinding until they wake up one day and are surround with kids from different fathers, how horrible is that.. dude, look out for yourself, obviously she's got kids from previous marriage, she's twisted, and she's got a new bf, man.. talk about hell... get those utilies out of your name..
Re: Need Advice Please hurting: sounds a bit like my X - when he moved out - he owed loans in my name and if I could've taken my name off of them - I would have. If I were you - I'd take your name off the accounts. Tell her to pay her old bills or find anotha sucka!!!
she sounds like a complete ass.
Re: Need Advice Please starzluv: she has unpaid bill already, that's why they had to go in your name. what if she desides not to pay again? you need to think about you, and your credit report. because even a $10 unpaid trash bill can end up on your credit report.
