Halloween BONILLAK: I have to get through an evening with the stbxh tonight. he says he is coming by to trick or treat with the kids and to have cake afterwards for our youngest who will be 3 tomorrow. I sure hope we pull this off ok. Everytime I see or talk to him he asks me for the car. I own 2 cars(both were gifts from my grandfather). stbx when he walked out on us during the night said he needed no car, no money and not even us(meaning the kids and I). Now that the weather is getting colder he must hate the public transportation or his new woman must be tired of carting his ass around but this is not my problem. Here in NJ gifts are not split up so I don't have to give him a car. My answer to him is he can buy one off of me(so I can use the money for Xmas) or too bad for him. I mean when he was here he had a home, a car to drive, dinners made, clothes cleaned, etc. He decided to leave it, not me so not my problem. Please let me get through tonight with nothing major happening.
Re: Halloween Falcon554: Wish you luck, yea and screw him when it comes to the car. I got a car after my wife made me leave, someone just gave me a old car. She has the new one. Soon tho she will have to make payments and lol she will lose it . She had the affair so screw her.
Re: Halloween Tarheel: I had to do that last year... oh wait, no I didn't. My (now) ex-wife was out at some Halloween party with her boyfriend while me and Little One did Halloween together. How about that... And she rolls home at 3:45 in the morning with some slutty schoolgirl outfit on, a dozen roses, and a HUGE bruise on her arm. But she wasn't cheating on me at the time... nope, not at all. Yeah, right.
I HATE this stupid holiday. It will forever be the day that I associate the demise of my marriage with. Oh well... no biggie now.
Re: Halloween jadedangel: [color=navy"> Luck with you and the Halloween thing! ... Remember your doing it for your kids --- embelish it for what it is-- a time to be something you want to be and not be what you are ;) So ... fake it ... all in the spirit of hallows eve...
The only thing I want to say is ... I vote you do not let him have the car --- go and jimmy rig it so it won't start and tell him ... oh damn it won't start --- I gotta get it fixed! I mean honestly ... I know Smo-kin can help you out with that! He knows somem .. somem. He does not deserve you helping him out like that