For all those who were cheated on hurting: For all those who were cheated on?
Did you go out and sleep with someone out of revenge? If so - did you feel better doing it? Did it make you feel like you were on even playing ground?
When my H cheated on me - I thought about it - went out to meet a few different men, but couldn't go through with it..I am now starting to think about it a bit and if it would have made it easier for me.
Re: For all those who were cheated on RSGinATX: Nope.
When I first separated, I didn't want to be with anyone else. Later, I didn't want to do anything that could keep us from reconciling. Then, I didn't want to do anything that might hurt my position when we divorced. Now, I just don't care...if/when I start having a sex life again it won't have anything to do with her.
Nobody ever felt better about themselves by emulating the people that hurt them.
Re: For all those who were cheated on mlkmn: Nope, I could've. Had a lot of opportunities. I just don't have any desire too.
I hope that changes someday, cause i can't remember the last time i got some lovin.
I am glad I haven't, It reminds me how much of better person i am,
Re: For all those who were cheated on flyaway: [quote author=hurting link=topic=21086.msg197096#msg197096 date=1130778615">
Did you go out and sleep with someone out of revenge? If so - did you feel better doing it? Did it make you feel like you were on even playing ground?
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Yes, Hurting. I did. I don't think I was conciously thinking about revenge. But I did want some affirmation of my femininity.....my beauty, my sexiness.
It was so, so, so the wrong thing for me to do. I don't know how to explain it other than to say that it backfired bigtime.
So my advice is to not do it. Wait. Let your emotions cool off a little bit. Take you time. It will get better.
Flyaway
Re: For all those who were cheated on lilly10: Hi Hurting,
No I did not I thought that would of been a bad idea for me. I am very emotional about sex so I have never been the type to be able to just sleep with someone. Although just this weekend I had the opportunity and was really debating if I should or not but I decided against it and feel like that was the right choice (even though the sambuca was telling me I should).
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