Just had a long talk with my ex... frontier74: My ex wife called me this evening and asked me for a huge favor. She said she'd had a horrible day and really needed someone to talk to. Well, it's been six months since the divorce, and I'm completely over her, so I figured why not be nice -- I do still care about her wellbeing, after all.
We talked for a few hours, about pretty trivial stuff. It seemed like she just really needed someone to listen to her. We cleared the air a bit -- shared a few feelings on the failure of our marriage, but then, the actual purpose of her call began to come out. She's in love with someone new. This someone new is 41 years old (she's 29), with a wife and three children. She's calling me because she couldn't call her boyfriend, seeing as he's married and all.
I told her that she completely destroyed any good feelings I had left for her. I then told her that I no longer wished to associate with her, said goodbye, and hung up.
So, why am I so pissed off and dissappointed that I'm actually shaking as I write this? I had sincerely hoped that she would learn a lesson from our divorce and maybe become a better person -- a stronger person. It seems that all she really did is abandon common sense and integrity. Well, good luck to you babe! I guess you couldn't stop at just one ruined marriage. I wash my hands of you, you selfish bitch!
Well guys, it looks like we might have a new member from Arizona soon.
Re: Just had a long talk with my ex... PnR: Oh that sucks sorry to hear that. Good for you for washing your hands of her.
Re: Just had a long talk with my ex... manda: I second that!
I hope all her friends and family say the same thing!
Re: Just had a long talk with my ex... schallb: your shaking and pissed off because you once again gave her the benefit of the doubt. you listened, she rambled, you talked, she rambled, you felt, she failed, your sensitive , she failed...now that she failed ...You've WON, your sense of pride ,sense of self, sense of others and just plan common sense will help you find someone to appreciate it all.... good luck to you
Re: Just had a long talk with my ex... jadedangel: [color=navy"> That is really sad ... Why people can't see the ramifications of their actions -- is beyond me.
Good for you .. for being strong enough to tell her to naff off ... basically. She doesn't need to bring you down -- She destroyed your marriage I am guessing ... and now she wants you to make her feel better for trying to destroy another marriage ... wow.
Just like schallb said -- you did win -- if only we could all be that strong. Good luck.[/color">
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