Re: They have to realize they blew it up. lookin4alite: WHEW! thankfully no... but it is up for sale.... :o
Re: They have to realize they blew it up. Raul: It's ironic, i found this post today. My sister and I talked today about Karma. I was in a long relationship years ago with a beautiful person and I did her wrong. I hurted her by having a baby with another woman (I cheated). We dated for so long, that she actually proposed marriage to me. She wanted a home, a baby and me as her husband. I did love her. I did wanted all those things. But I was in my early 20's that I just wanted to go out with other women. I felt I wasn't ready for commitment. Before she left me (she had enough), she said tha one day someone is going to hurt you so bad and you will think of me. You will feel the pain that I went through.
Six years later after she left, I got married, and my wife left me for another man two months ago. And now, I live alone in an apartment. And I fell in love with my wife- and she was so cruel, and mean to me. She has said things that no other person has said, she cursed at me, she put me down, she walks away when she see me, and she laughs at my face when I tell her I love her. I didn't cheat on her. I was a good, kind, loving, affectionate husband. I was so happy in my marriage. I have never experience this type of pain my life. And it took my sister to remind me today that it was karma. That I hurted my ex so bad- according to her sister- she was in so much pain that she cried hysterically month after month. The last I know of her is that she has two beautiful daughters, married a good man- treats her good, has a nice home, nice cars and she doesn't work- because his family is wealthy.
I did write her letters apologizing for hurting her- about 4 times in the last 6 years. I regret every moment for hurting her. I even called her mom's house and I knew she was there- but she said- I don't know who you are and have the wrong number- she hanged up on me.
Karma. I didn't believe it could happen. But it happened to me. Now I cry month after month. I hurt. I am sad. And I am hoping God can ease my pain now.
My sister now says my wife will also get Karma for treating our marriage (we married in a church- we're Catholics- church is very sacred to us) a joke. My wife (STBXW) is out with men, partying and telling people lies about why she left me. She said I tried to rape her, assault her, and that I was a controlling husband. I DID NONE OF THAT. And when I confront her about that- she has no idea why people are saying that. My cousin works with her at a store- and she told me that everyone in the store thinks I am an abuser.
So, karma does exist. Now, I only pray to God to get by everyday. And I have asked God to forgive me for hurting my ex girlfriend. I hope that is that with Karma.
Raul
Re: They have to realize they blew it up. zippy: Ok remember the friend that I mentioned above? Well her exex (the one who got married/divorced) aimed her out of the blue last night and just spewed more apologies than she ever knew possible. He told her how sorry he was and that he seriously made a mistake when he left her and he treated her badly, etc etc. We were both stunned as we both just spoke about this the other day. So it came out as quite a surprize. He just said he was sorry.
So karma. Yes. But you have to let it happen and not force it and try not to get too angry or hold onto that anger for too long becauase I do believe that it will happen. Some don't see it in action but others, like my friend, see it up close and personal.
Re: They have to realize they blew it up. tracy75: My husband and I were together for 7 years, married for over 4. In the past 4 years he's put me through almost 2 years of alcohol and drug abuse. He took all of our money and at times the money I need to pay the bills, He finally got sober but We have no money saved and we were just getting by with the bills. He relapsed started drinking again and lied and I changed the lock and packed his stuff. He came back and apologized and said he realizes he has a problem and I took him back. A week later he left me and said there's nothing there, he's done and he doesn't want to be a part of our marriage anymore. I don't understand how you stand by a person for 7 years and love them and have them turn around and leave you. Will kharma ever find this man? WIll he ever get what he gave?
