just need to talk im sad emcee: hello, its been whils since i have posted but i am always reading. my x and i have been split for over a year but we see each other everyday because we share 2 children. well she now has met a guy and it looks like they are getting together, and i just dont know what to do. i go from mad to sad in a second. i get the kids today and i see he has bought her a new video game and he even called her while i was there. her and i were arguing and she was giving him a play by play account of what happened. this is so new i dont know what i should do, i need help starting today. thanks in advance
Re: just need to talk im sad Suddenly Single: I'm assuming by what you wrote that you still have some feelings for your ex?
How old are the children?
ok.....first take a deep breath in and out....
Re: just need to talk im sad emcee: yes i still have feelings today is my daughters 3rd bday and my son is 5
Re: just need to talk im sad Suddenly Single: OK. My first suggestion is, and you are not going to like it, is to limit seeing her as much as you can. Why do you see her everyday? What is your custody arrangement? Unfortunately the kids are a little young but I would have suggested that when you come pick them up...just have them run out to the car and vice versa but 3 might be young....it depends on the kids.
You mentioned arguing? what was it about? was it in front of the kids? Do you normally get along?
The new guy may or may not be a permanent person in her life...you can't know that yet and don't get yourself frazzled about it. I don't know how but the first thing you need to work on is your feelings towards her. I'm sure if you posted on here about that you'd get lots of responses. I can't help with that matter - I didn't harbor any feelings towards my ex. I would really recommend seeking out some people on here that are/were in the same boat as you in the feelings department.
You are "split for over a year" - so you are divorced? or separated?
Happy Birthday to your daughter.
Re: just need to talk im sad manda: How did you handle it? (after she got off the phone)
I think it would be good also if the kids were ready and at least coming out the door so you wouldn't have to be inside long enough to have to hear her on the phone. Maybe you could ask her to help you with having them ready.
So sorry.
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