Re: My story mwdguru: I am in Texas right now working as we speak, how long should I wait before I pick up all my before marriage possessions? Usually how long is it before the possessions that were acquired during marriage are split? When I am working, we are put in places, but right now while I am not working, due to the fact that all my shit is still in the house, I have yet to get a place I can call home!! If I would be willing to talk to her about the situation we are currently in and seek counciling and so forth to make somewhat of an attempt to remedy the situation, when should I make an attempt to pick up my stuff?
There are 2 beds in the house and so forth... So she would not be without.. She wouyld not have a dresser or nightstand, in the room though... Yeah it would be rather desolate... This is some complex shit to sort through! I am in wonder as to why in the hell can people not meet in the middle and totally block out outside influences!? Is this not why people get married: Through sickness and in health, richer or poorer, etc.... We married each other not each others families!!! Yeah, I can be materialistic, but she can be as well in fact far more than myself!!!
4 months after we were married she through a fit because she was not pregnant yet!! She said, "My biological (meaning her) clock is running out of time! She was pregnant (but did not know it) when she through this lil fit!!
4 months after she has the baby we buy a nice house in a nice neighborhood, 2 months later she pitches a fit for a new SUV!!! I was like, Are you ever fucking happy!!! We just had a baby, just bought a house, now it is an SUV!!! Always something... In a way, I feel as though she was trying to drive me into bankruptcy or the insane asylum!! Shit, part of me wants her back, but I guess this is for the sake of the baby, then the other part is just wanting to forget everything and move on; which would not be a problem if it was not for the baby!! This part destroys me!!! Thinking about my lil baby girl, my pride and joy..... I see that she hurts very much!! I am also in wonder as to if, she had this planned from the beginning? I know that is sick, but I am willing to look at anything now... Am I going paranoid!? Is this form of confusion normal for this stage in the game??
