Money and the *$*%@! Mooneyes: I am so angry.
2 weeks ago he took his girlfriend back home to meet his family. He got a second job to help pay for this vacation. He never took vacations with me. Never got a second job to pay any of our debt. We still have alot of marital debt. I am unemployed. We are still married. Because when I had money for my part of the lawyer fees he kept putting off dealing with paperwork, and also didn't want to come up with the money he had agreed on.
I tried to contact him 2 weeks ago because a joint debt... our storage unit.. payment was going through the bank and i'm totally broke.. I haven't paid my rent even, because I don't have the money to do so. I wanted to ask him to help me out. I had agreed to pay for it before when he had one job, and I earned alot more than he did. He still hasn't returned any of my calls. Sunday he returned an email and said he'd take care of it.. But he hasn't. I also was asking him to talk to me more about the divorce, and he said in the email he would get back to me on the other things. (LIke me asking him to come up with the money to get it started.)
see i'm getting pissed every morning because i get a note from the bank every day that there is less than a certain amount in the bank account for our joint account. so every day i'm getting a notice that i am married to someone who doesn't give a shit about our obiligations.
I'm so angry. And I am getting upset about it every day.. Because he doesn't have the decency to finish stuff with me. Or communicate with me. And I thought we were going to try to be friends.. So not only am I broke, saddled with debt from the marriage that is more than what should be mine.. I am realizing that I lost my best friend. and that he isn't acting as a friend anymore.
Re: Money and the *$*%@! alonewith2: You need to close out that bank account if you can...or try to get your name off of it! By keeping it open, you are just adding more overdraft fees, etc to it which is just increasing this problem! Call the bank and see what your options are.
Re: Money and the *$*%@! jadedangel: [color=navy"> I know I have talked to you about this before Mooneyes ... he is a b@S!**d for doing that to you. I wish there was more we could do -- I know there isn't much we can say -- you just need to get it out .. so rant away. It's amazing how priorities change and things don't matter. I am sorry for you.
The avoiding responsibililtes is one of the worst things ... and it's sad you are sitting in it's wake. Maybe getting your name off the account is actually a really good idea. Let him have the account -- no need to ruin your good name.
Hey ... maybe .... just maybe ..
... I know some people ... who know some people .... if you ever need a contract let me know ;)
[/color">
