i hurt today emcee: i wish i could get this huge weight off of my chest, i can hardly breathe. my x has gotten her first post us boyfriend and i just dont know how to handle it. i have to see her everyday because i pick the kids up. we have been split for a year and a half but its seems like we just broke up, i really dont know what to do. i have my kids today and im not even strong enough to play with them :-[
Re: i hurt today hardened_heart1970: theres your motivation to get better
play unrestricted with the kids. go to a movie. eat popcorn, and do the chicken dance.
my ex had, and has one b/f i have 2 kids. NO CONTACT works. set up a middle person. clear your head. go out, and talk to some women. most are just as scared as us to talk, or to start....
it will get better, but only, and ONLY after you have your head set on it. because you heart wont listenm thats whats making it hard for you to move on, and the longer you do it this way, the longer you will hurt.
Re: i hurt today emcee: that is great advice, really great advice i just dont know how to get the ball rolling.........
Re: i hurt today hardened_heart1970: ok.
to start out, you need to find something you can concentrate on, when feelings or thoughts hit.
heres what i done. i had both my daughters halloween pics handly from oct-march at least. when ever i got a wife thought, i look at the pics, and said they dont deserve this, WAY more than me. i concentrated on being the bestest dad i could be to make the transision easier for them and me. remember, they are all that matters through life. no matter what they will always be with you, in heart and soul....
Re: i hurt today emcee: thats a good idea, i appreciate your time, still sad though :'(
