Re: Starting NO CONTACT today...again
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Re: Starting NO CONTACT today...again Irony: [quote author=random link=topic=21551.msg201711#msg201711 date=1131876881">
So, this is what I said, "Fine.  I'll talk to you later.  Bye."

What should I have done?  Anything different? 

Up at 4:00 this morning.  I hate this.
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You did just the right thing Random. Your ex was testing your resolve and you passed with flying colors!
Really proud of you on that for several reasons:
1. not wanting to get your son in the middle
2. Standing up for your principals

Difficult to do all this the 'right ' way. I am doing 'no contact" and last night stbxw emailed me to let me know her 30 yr old daughter was ill. Rather than get back to the email, I called the daughter directly.
Shows I care but keeps wifey in the dark. She will find out I called next time she talks to daughter.
I miss her and I was up at 4 but turned on art bell instead of the computer.. should have turned on the computer and talked to you guys instead.

Re: Starting NO CONTACT today...again hardened_heart1970: random.

do you have anyone you could use as a go between, so they can monitor the calls? that way he would only contact you for kid stuff....

that would make it easier........


Re: Starting NO CONTACT today...again manda: [quote author=goose tape man link=topic=21551.msg201741#msg201741 date=1131892396">
random.

do you have anyone you could use as a go between, so they can monitor the calls? that way he would only contact you for kid stuff....

that would make it easier........
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ummm, that would take telling someone, right? 

uh, no. 

No one knows.  No one.

Edit:  (well, except you guys. ;D ;D)
Re: Starting NO CONTACT today...again Irony: I know, Random
Call forward his calls to my cell..I'll tell him for ya :P
Re: Starting NO CONTACT today...again manda: [quote author=Irony link=topic=21551.msg201751#msg201751 date=1131894167">
I know, Random
Call forward his calls to my cell..I'll tell him for ya :P
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Yeah, that ought to go over well.  ;D ;)

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