Those who have been cheated on... lost enigma: What are the signs???
If you suspected and confronted....how did you handle it?
Re: Those who have been cheated on... Trying2Hope: I found emails that all but proved it. I still didn't want to believe it. By the end, I found out about several affairs.
I sat her down, confronted her, and she still lied. I ended up asking her to leave. She left, then I felt like crap and asked her back. She never came back. I regretted it.
Now I don't regret it. I'm glad the bitch is gone.
Re: Those who have been cheated on... Falcon554: Lets see she started to dress a bit different. But my wife only saw the affair guy one time when we were still together. She ask for a seperation about a week later then a week after that she told me. So I guess im lucky to a point she was honest with me.
She knew she could not keep seeing him and lie to me it would of killed her.
And she kept her cell phone right up to her at all times.
Re: Those who have been cheated on... shockedandamazed: I didn't find out until four days after it happened, he came home (was away in training all week with HER) and as soon as he got home he was totally different. Looked at me with no expression whatsoever. He blamed it on being tired. Next day, he sits me down and tells me our marriage had been shitty for the past 6 years.....started talking about separation. Four days later, I looked on his cell phone log and OW's phone number was on there literally every 5-10 minutes, her calling him and him calling her. I confronted him about it (while he was in training over voice mail) that Friday, I hired a PI to tail him from his training, he kissed her in the parking lot, ate dinner with her, they couldn't keep their hands off of eachother. They got in their own vehicles, he phoned me to tell me he was on his way home, I told him he needed to find another place to stay.....and the rest is history...
Mine just lied through his teeth all the way through...now won't even talk to me about it. We only speak through e-mail about division of property. I think he is the biggest POS on this earth.
End of story!
Re: Those who have been cheated on... malex1984: she started dreesing differently, and going out to drinks with work collegues.
She lied to me about going out with girlfriends and she was really going out and staying with him.
I found emails that pretty much confirmed it all,i confronted her about it and she lied about it all and decided to leave.
She still lies about it although they are together now and claims they were just friends before
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