Re: Those who have been cheated on... jem: progressively longer work hours which turned into drinks afterward to cool off from the big games (coach).
text messaging constantly
after I found the text messages and asked him about it, he continued to lie and lie and lie but did finally say he wanted the divorce
proceeded to parade around for the next week putting on cologne and buying all sorts of new clothes
still denies the shit to this day even though hes still with this wh*r
i'm still to bitter to laugh about this shit even though its so ridiculous
how didn't I know sooner?
ps- his response to my accusations was "you have quite an imagination"- dead giveaway
Re: Those who have been cheated on... lilly10: Hmmmm lets see what were the signs
1. changed his cell phone password to his voice mail (we always knew eachothers) when I called him out on it he changed it back to the one I knew.
2. He got a second secret cell phone I found out about that when the welcome package came.
3. Checked credit card statements when he said he had dinner alone there were charges at TGI fridays for over $50.00 now for TGI fridays that is a lot of food for one person/ there were several other restraunts on there as well
4. having to go to work meetings on a friday night
5. acting like a cold hearted bast@rd
6. telling me that he was not in love with me anymore instead of saying that he was with someone else
7. Other woman calls your house and hangs up/ I call her back she answers thinking it was him and I said hello and she hung up right away
There is more but these are the ones I could think of right now. When I confronted him he just lied about everything. When I asked about all the restraunts on his credit card he told me that he goes out to lunch with coworkers and they pay for eachother I said why dont you just admit that there is someone else?? He proceded to lie some more and said please believe me I am telling the truth!! He lied straight faced while I cried and still I looked to find a reason to believe (sorry I digressed).
Re: Those who have been cheated on... lonelywithouthim: My first clue was that when I went to our apartment that he was living in alone at the time, it was spotless and all of our wedding pictures were hidden in the closet. DUH! too bad i didn't realize then. Also, he was clean shaven, and always smelled good, something he never did for me >:( Unfortunately it took me getting the phone bill and calling the OW and confronting her to finally get the truth. :-\
Re: Those who have been cheated on... Lumpy: Might I add exceptionally lame excuses for getting in late or going out late. "My friends' cat died. We're going to take her out drinking to console her." That at ten o'clock on a weeknight. Yep. I actually got to hear that come out of her lips.
Re: Those who have been cheated on... Lost-and-alone: Almost no signs from the affair he had 3 years ago. I questioned a few cell calls, but he always had an answer that sounded plausable. He was ALWAYS here and always accounted for. This affair went on for FOUR YEARS and again, he was always here and nothing was suspicious. She was married. He finally broke it off from guilt (or so he says) and came and told me about it. It's amazing how much a person can get done on their lunch hour.................
Secret cell phone is another dead giveaway, that's the most recent thing.
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