Re: Update: On Perverted Brother In Law no more tears: Is this site about breakup/divorce recovery or sexual harrasment ?
Re: Update: On Perverted Brother In Law PiscesGoddess: No more tears-
We all tend to share many things going on in our lives..usually starting with the divorce and then it often trails off into other topics.
It is a place where we can all share our thoughts and feelings..under the "terms of service" of course..many things are brought about because of our divorces..some are not.. but thats always the original reason we came here..and then we just end up sharing the rest.
Just one big happy ojar family.. :P
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Re: Update: On Perverted Brother In Law hardened_heart1970: hi all. im beat bad.
heres my thoughts. he has her wrapped around her finger. can you spell SET HIM UP?
i would get together with the parties involved, and set him up. the only problem would be, you would have to go into this.
then maybe your sister would get the point, and see what kinda man she has. set him up for a " talk" let it progress, get it on video if needed. let it show how he comes on to you, and he does all the actions. but NEVER take it any further than you feel comfortable with. just the seduction on tape, should show your sister...
i know, its probably dumb... im tired, i will think..
Re: Update: On Perverted Brother In Law Trying2Hope: Rule of Life: Stop being naked in front of perverts. This only leads to trouble.
Re: Update: On Perverted Brother In Law Macaw_Lover: I'm sorry guys, I know this is a divorce/breakup support site :(
Honestly I just didn't know where else to go to just vent if you will and hope for an outsiders opinion. For those of you that posted, you have no idea how much it truly does help me get through this painful time in my life.
Ok, well i'm writing now because honestly I just had a temper tantrum I guess you could say when I asked my mom where the vaccum was and she said it was at my sisters and I said I thought her house was sold and she was in kansas gone, fanito, goodbye! My heart is breaking and i'm torn! I have so much rage in me right now because this was completely twisted onto me from my brother in law. Am I shocked? NO, but my god this is quite possibly going to cost me my good relationship I previously had with my sister AND my neice and nephew! That's not fair, and ya I know life isn't fair. MY Sister is chosing to believe him because well I can say for my brother in law he is no dummy! He admited to bits and pieces of the stories I said, however he changed the stories to where my sister truly believes that he made bad choices IN order to help ME! She said he is so heart broken and pissed off because I was the little sister he never had and I hurt him! WTF! He claims he ONLY took those pictures because I was already stripping and he was fearful I would do it anyway and have some sleeze take them. I know this doesn't make sense, but it just goes to show how he is lying, obviously I know this, but my sister doesn't is because ONE he put this thought in my head before I started dancing....Granted I COULD have said no. That of course was My bad choice and I accept that. I trusted him to much!
All this I just now said to my mom how he twisted it around, she just laid there in bed silent. I got mad and said sorry I know how you don't care. Honestly I know my mom of course cares about me, but she certainly isn't giving me ANY support at all.
God this is so hard and I just keep getting mad, then I sit down and calm down then just cry my eyes out.
What am I supposed to do? Last night my sister gave me her email address which is a start I guess and she said I would strong consider calling a truce with him and if you think he is going to call and talk to you then your mistaken. A TRUCE? YOU GOTTA BE KIDDING ME! HOW can I maintain my relationship with her and the kids which mean SO much to me without compromising my integrity of not bowing down and letting him win and also if I do so my sister will be in her mind reaffirmed that she is "right" about her husband and he "isn't such a bad guy"? HELP I am so lost right now. What would any of you do in my situation or has anyone been in an icky situation like this.
I have more thoughts, info I would like to post, but need to try and calm down before I do so....
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