Re: Put the Hammer Down ? malex1984: i know exactly how you feel.
My ex left me after 5 years together and about a month ago i broke the no contact and called her, it was a little bit different than your situation because she answered the phone but a guy was in the background and they were both laughing
When i asked what was funny she said that they were taking bets on who was calling and she was right it was me, i was so devastated after i loved this girl with all my heart for so long and she could just make a joke of me with her other guy. Like i was some desperate person chasing her and it was all a joke for her
Yes she cheated on me and moved out which i never saw coming, but this just brought out the hurt so bad.
She is with this guy now i am pretty sure and i am having a really hard time coming to terms that she could leave me after 5 years and be with someone so quickly and act so happy.
It really gets you down and you start to think the worst about yourself but you cant do it, they will be the ones who are unhappy because rebound relationships never last.
Re: Put the Hammer Down ? Falcon554: [quote author=no more tears link=topic=21564.msg201671#msg201671 date=1131854902">
i guess i need to add to the post a little so ill just do it here....its been a month and she is with another guy....7 years with 1 guy then boom shes just so happy with another ? WTH Her letting another man answer her phone was a clear indication she is done with me right ?
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Try and affair, sex with 6 other guys and now has a boyfriend. all in under 5 months :( But I know its more about her and her insanity then it is about me.
been together for 21 years.
