Re: Poll: Raise your hand ... Frazzled Nomad: [quote author=Jabe link=topic=21565.msg201838#msg201838 date=1131905435">
I think this rules existed for a reason. The reason was to make people don't break their hearts on each other. Those rules where here to protect us not to restrain us.[/quote">
it's taken me a big shake up to realise this point. i had ALWAYS seen it the other way around. live and learn, huh.
Re: Poll: Raise your hand ... 1hrtbroken+2: I too was one of those that said if your not happy get out, thinking that you can end the marriage whenever you wanted.
OH HOW DUMB WAS I!!!! I think a marriage is very sacride! They are all tough and they all have to be worked at by both parties. Love should always be there, it's the other stuff that has to be worked at. But that's just my own "o".
Re: Poll: Raise your hand ... trying to cope in Ky: I to thought if you wanted a better life that you deserved it so just leave. I left my husband and my 4 yr old son back in Feb. of this yr and have been more miserable than I was before. Go figure. I wish I had listened to my pastor and his wife before I did the unthinkable. I am now divorced and my son is suffering very much with this whole thing. Doesn't understand why mommy and daddy aren't together anymore and wants us back badly. In all reality I want us back just as bad if not worse. I miss "US" We see each other everyday and he eats his dinner here and still goes to church with us and I think that makes it even harder. I think he wants to get back together just is afraid he is going to have to relive what he has gone through in the last 8 months. I do understand just trying to figure out how to cope with it all. Anyone have any advice? Just email please!
Thanks,
trying to cope in ky :'(
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