Can anyone be Friends to your X Change4better: Seems like i find my self with alot of expections when we try to be friends. I just don't understand, She initiates being friends calls almost every day , then out of the sky blues she stops calling for Days....why is it that i find my self with lots of expections with her calling me. is it that i'm building on false hopes? Or could it be that the reason of her calling is because of her confusions. i just can't find myself trying to be her friend when i'm so much still in love with her, and i build on false hopes when we try to be friends.
anyone experience the same?
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Re: Can anyone be Friends to your X twetifb: my stbx and i are trying to be friends. we don't want to talk everyday because we know that we'll fall into a routine and i'm worried we'll get false hope. it's nice to talk to someone who knows almost everything about you. just last night he read into one of my comments and had me shaking my head in amusement because no one else in my life would have read that much into it. my advice when trying to be friends is simple, know that it's over...remove your hope for reconciliation...and discuss what topics are off-limits. i'm not sure if this will work, but i'm trying the friend route because i can't imagine him not in my life.
Re: Can anyone be Friends to your X Irony: [quote author=tweety link=topic=21591.msg201922#msg201922 date=1131928847">
my advice when trying to be friends is simple, know that it's over...remove your hope for reconciliation...and discuss what topics are off-limits. i'm not sure if this will work, but i'm trying the friend route because i can't imagine him not in my life.
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Oh Tweety.. I wish I was there already.. I am having a hard time thinking it's really over.. go from hating her to "how can she do this knowing what we had?"
oh well.
Parts of life are excellent. sunday nights are tough though.
Re: Can anyone be Friends to your X Trying2Hope: My ex walked out on me as a husband and betrayed my trust completely. I, personally, will never trust her again and will never be her friend under any circumstances.
It is very sad to say, but it would be fine with me if I never saw her again.
I have forgiven her for my own sake, but I will never forget.
I truly believe that there are some things you can never undo.
Re: Can anyone be Friends to your X HeartBrokenDemon: I 'm in the same situation me all the sudden my want to speak to me again after 7-8 month, it confuse the hell out of at the start but when she want to know how i'm going with my life, I told everything like I always did coz I'm still still in love with her but the truth is we can not be. It's hard to imagine her not in my picture and I miss her to bit. She told me that she miss me too but she said that friendship is all she can be. I tell you wat it feel so much better to leave in a good term, its a closure that we both needed and if we meant to be well we ll be but for me it s all over red over coz she 's been with someone else already. I don't like to double dip my own chip and I don't care if we meant to be. If you know wat I mean. The damage has been done and there is no turing back now. I will always except her as a friend and nothing more coz I don't want to think about love any more.
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