Re: Why do people stick it out? StillLearning: Thanks all for your replies
Re: Why do people stick it out? jadedangel: [color=navy"> Rave all you want --- it helps sometimes to just get it out and know it is listened to. I can't really tell you why she was like that -- but maybe it was never you. I know cop out. But, do you really think there wasn't a time when she loved you? Sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. She isn't taking any consideration of your feelings and is working through her own without even giving you a glint to what is going on --- you don't need that kind of selfishness.
I agree ... even being female -- I don't know that I am in the minority, but sex is an important aspect of the relationship -- no not the most important, but the desire your speak of must be accounted for. It is a give and take for a happy relationship ... sounds so cheesy but the truth is pretty clear. You deserve to find someone who wants to make you feel wanted as much as you want to make your partner feel wanted ... it is starting to sound like she never gave that to you --- I know it's hard to move on .. believe me, but, look at what you can attain with someone new. [/color">
Re: Why do people stick it out? StillLearning: Thanks JA......you are right she did not give me the same sexual caring back...I tried to talk to her about it but it just did not help...I felt like I was pushing/apologising all time for my desires . I just thought that maybe she really did love me but had issues which I tried to talk to her about but to no avail.
There is a really cool song wriiten by Coldplay from the X&Y album which sums it up for me...not saying she needs fixing...I just find it appropraite.
COLDPLAY ...FIXYOU
When you try your best but you don’t succeed
When you get what you want but not what you need
When you feel so tired but you can’t sleep
Stuck in reverse
And the tears come streaming down your face
When you lose something you can’t replace
When you love someone but it goes to waste
Could it be worse
Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
And I will try to fix you
And high up above or down below
When you’re too in love to let it go
But if you never try you’ll never know
Just what you’re worth
Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
And I will try to fix you
Tears stream down your face
When you lose something you cannot replace
Tears stream down your face
And i…
Tears stream down your face
I promise you I will learn from my mistakes
Tears stream down your face
And i…
Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
Re: Why do people stick it out? StillLearning: My G/F also said she did not know what she wanted....jeez.......I don't know what I want either but that doesn't mean dumping on the the most important relationship I have without involving them in my quest to find out!
Some people .........I don't know what to say........I wish I was a bug....no relationships then...just eat'in ,sleep'in and root'in...........how simple would that be? LOL
Re: Why do people stick it out? jadedangel: [quote author=StillLearning link=topic=21592.msg202002#msg202002 date=1131939307">
My G/F also said she did not know what she wanted....jeez.......I don't know what I want either but that doesn't mean dumping on the the most important relationship I have without involving them in my quest to find out!
Some people .........I don't know what to say........I wish I was a bug....no relationships then...just eat'in ,sleep'in and root'in...........how simple would that be? LOL
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[color=navy"> No ... coz then someone can smash that nasty ol bug ---
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