Re: Fiance cheated...Happy Thanksgiving! Sittingbear: Happy Thanksgiving to the Stanker
Turkeys seem to be in much abundance these days....wouldn't you say?
Or is it that it seems that Turkey gobble gobble actions seem in abundance...especially with the ex's ....
The question I got for you is ... Do you know what you want ? Cause in knowing this , you got a base of operations, and a destination..yeah I read your missive and hear the pain of reflection and recycling of resentment and loss in your sharing...Yet Not once did you mention anything about your goals, dreams, and what the heck the Stanker wants....
Yet there is sharing about forgiveness eh? Yet my understanding is that if this is what you need to move on..and get out of your stagnation...then you gotta get some space and you gotta get yourself some more understanding about this ex...
People are not stupid, neither is your ex...nor are you...You know what you want ...heck..ask yourself...willl this woman be able to give you what you need to reach happiness...real happiness..so far ..from your sharing..it seems that you are not happy,,, your personal armor is high and your gaurd has no plans to come down anytime soon...
So what is it that the stanker needs....you know what it is dude...Your sharing is good....let me know what you are up to dude...
As for friends....Yeah it sounds like good advice...stay away from the stanker till he stabalizes....hey...come to think about it...would the betrayal of your ex and your best friend's union be the reason for your stagnation...mmmm...
sittingbear sits and waits for the hurting stanker to reply...honestly..
Re: Fiance cheated...Happy Thanksgiving! stanker: What I want...a deceptively simple question with a complex answer...
What I want is the girl I first met. Someone so in love with me that nothing would have come between us. And that feeling would be mutual. I don't want or expect a perfect life, but I want someone that will ride out the bad times with the good. I wanted someone that without hesitation would live up to her future wedding vows even before she was married.
Is this too much to ask for in a woman?
Re: Fiance cheated...Happy Thanksgiving! Sittingbear: Good one stanker... on the making of the wanted list...yet now what does stanker need.??
I wish their would be acceptance in this list...hint hint
