Re: Who will cut the turkey? BONILLAK: My kids are 16 and he is ok with it all as he never had the best relationship with their Dad and he is older and seems to feel this is best for us. Our 3 year old just doesn't really have a clue, just thinks he lost Dad at work :(, its our almost 9 yr old that concerns me...she was a huge Daddy's Girl and I thought she would always be upset, crying and taking it very hard but she doesn't say much at all.
