Re: For all u people who says the dumpee hurts more....load of cr*&p jadedangel: [color=navy"> I have to agree with dgirl on this too .. it sounds like your 'over her' ... just not 'over her being over you'. She moved on -- not to be harsh but, you left -- what did you think was going to happen?
I am sure you are miserable and I am sorry that you have to go through the hurt. Her .. saying she won't tell her bf -- but will see you -- why? Why are you going to see her -- as friends? Maybe she is trying to be a friend, but doesn't want to risk upsetting this guy -- I don't know.
To get over her -- that one we all wish the secret too -- but, first of all you have to accept the choice you made. Whether you like it or not -- we all live with regrets and they rarely just go away overnight.
Re: For all u people who says the dumpee hurts more....load of cr*&p daemon: Thanx guys.
Here's a bit more info....i actually did try and get her back. THe day after she slept with this guy the first time she rings me and wants me to come over and stay the night and almost starts crying saying how she hates single life. Then she tells me that she slept with this guy. I didn't know what to do i didn't really wanna stay over after she slept with another guy in the bed that i have been sleeping in for the last year and a half. She threatened me saying if i didn't come over she wouldn't be my friend.
After a few days i thought maybe i could take her back and it doesn't matter that she slept with someone else so i ask her and she says that she kind likes him and that he came over again during the week.
It just makes me wonder how much she loved me if she moved on so fast cause i know i wouldn't be able to. In fact i had a chance with someoone else the week after we broke up and i turned it down cause i needed some time.
I guess i'm just low on self esteem at the moment.
Its the old question of heart vs head.
I knew in my head it was the right thing to do (hopefully) but my heart can't let go.
Re: For all u people who says the dumpee hurts more....load of cr*&p riversandlakes: man, you broke it off with her. you made a decision, please stick with it...
it's now a mind-job for every one :-\
