Re: Survival: 2 Questions about how you are doing: emcee: 1. I try to be more patient with my 2 kids than I was before. I try to be a better father for them so that if they go away with thier mom they will remember a good dad.
2. I drink and smoke and thats it. i dont eat and i can barely sleep. i am dying on the inside right now.
Re: Survival: 2 Questions about how you are doing: freovir: 1) develping a strng support network of people who can relate to my situation, and trying to keep the lives of my girls as stable as possible.
2) not excercising enough (at all) and drinking to much
Re: Survival: 2 Questions about how you are doing: flyaway: What a great question, random! :) Here's my contribution:
1) I am getting with my friends and really enjoying life one day at a time...trying new things, new music, food, clothes....hair. Just generally learning all about me...and what makes me tick
2) I am spending too much time online :( I even think that my girls are starting to notice my "absence" from home life....in some ways, it is my escape.....I need to improve there, cause my girls are more precious to me than air even! :)
Re: Survival: 2 Questions about how you are doing: Gabo: 1) Trying a little bit harder to pass my courses at school, feeling less sad, going to therapy, meeting new people, got a nice haircut, try to dress “smart” (cool), using my contact lenses (like random, even if I am not going nowhere). Talked to ex and told her what a B!tch she was for cheating on me and still wanting to be friends and started No Contact.
2) I am smoking like maniac, not working out, not eating properly and continuing to lose weight, not doing enough to pass my grades and I am still crying almost everyday for her. Oh yes… spending too much time online.
Re: Survival: 2 Questions about how you are doing: Falcon554: Im doing really good these last few days. Wife and I are talking again, not about us but just in general. I cant do the no contact thing. We are getting along great again. Thats all I want, no more fighting, no more hurtfull words, but if we can talk and get along thats best for my daughter and son.
Im sure no contact would be eaiser but not for my son and daughter, and they are sooo much more important then I am.
But im feeling great, no more tears.
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