Man this is tough emcee: My x and i have been seperated for a year + , we have 2 kids so we still hung out alot. No sex or sleepovers or anything but we hung out alot. I still helped her with stuff and bam 3 weeks ago she met this guy and now nothing. she even took the kids over to his house for thanksgiving, ouch, glad thats over but dreading christmas. i am having a hard time with this. the 5 years we were together i would ask her to ask her friends to babysit so we could go on dates or whatever and she always said they were busy, either that or she would have me watch the kids so she could go out. now with this guy its been three weeks and she has her friends babysit at least 5 nights a week. she never wants to have dinner or anything. she has told me she really likes him but they are just staying friends and taking it slow so it doesnt end up like we did. he buys her flowers, video games takes her to dinner, all the stuff i did but he is such a "gentleman" she says. she says he is willing to be a part of the kids life, my kids seem to like him. i see the bounce in her step and i guess i should be happy for her but its like getting dumped again and i have that heavy weight in my chest. she says they are going slow but shit, thanksgiving dinner, 3 weeks after you meet? Going slow my but, the only thing that is going slow is my healing and i dont know what to do!!!!!!!!!
