Re: I have pushed every woman ive ever loved away fiona: I agree, now that you have some insight- it only makes a difference if you do something with that insight. I have guy friends who clearly tell me they have "commitment issues" and want to "settle down", however, they do nothing! Go talk to someone about this if you truly want to resolve it. It's not going to go away on its own, you need to do some work and really gets your hands dirty.
Re: I have pushed every woman ive ever loved away mine: just remember this........
you are scared of love......
it hurts your partner just as much as it hurts you that you push them away
if not more
because they love you too.......and it shows they trust them,
Re: I have pushed every woman ive ever loved away no more tears: ty you all for your responses....jaded i dont want to think its true but sometimes i do wonder are some ppl not meant to be with somebody....arghh i dont want to think about it either.....daemon ty for ur words.....that got me thinking it really did.....GG to answer your question i am a male and no i have never wanted a female who is crazy or dramatic or tormented...lol....umm no....as far as the growing up thing....as far as me thinking am i not ready to grow up....it wasnt really that...the relationships faltered due to the fact i just wanted to be me and be accepted...but they all wanted to mold me into what they wanted me to be....and in the end who i was when i met them wasnt good enough.....LASPE no there is no possible way me and the last X are going to reconcile....we tried and it was awfull...i gave up everything for her to try to make it work again and i got ...well how can i say this...punkd. MINE i disagree with what u said...because i deeply loved these women....i am not afraid of love...im just afraid of obeying a womans every command...which i guess is why im single....
Re: I have pushed every woman ive ever loved away mine: if it is real love you should not have to obey anyone....
you should do things together or for one another because you want to