Re: GRRR..... manda: [quote author=minneapolis link=topic=22061.msg205867#msg205867 date=1133108659">
Oh God, the picture of your little boy sitting with his backpack on waiting for his dad just breaks my heart, as I'm sure it does yours.
What a first class a$$hole.
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Oh gosh, I second that...or third, fourth fifth it! How old is your son?
Re: GRRR..... kipeachi: My son is only three yrs old. He's totally a daddy's boy. I have never withheld him from his father. I , for like the first two weeks after we separated let him call his dad everynite so he could tell him goodnite. I called and asked his father if he wanted to watch him at certain times......Then I realized that I needed to stop contacting him, let him call for his son, I was making it easy for him. When he moved the ow and her daughter in, it seems he really doesn't have much interest in his own son!! He doesn't call, doesn't come over. I talked to him sat after I let our son call him, I asked what time he was coming to pick him up... He goes in this " why you got a date? " crap, like I can't have a life......... I got mad and hung up, he never called back for his son..........I seen his mom today in walmart, said he came over and they wanted to know where jimmy was, he told his mom to call and to see if they could get him if they wanted to see him....My god can he be so heartless?? I cringe every time I think of the ow and her daughter being there, using my sons room, playing with his toys.......And then I have to deal with listening to my son cry cause he wants his daddy......its so heart wrenching,,,,but am I right not to step out and take his son over there if he can't call and ask for him? Is that being mean to my son? I know he doesn't understand all of it, but it has taken its toll on him.......What do I do? I know he loves his son very much, but how can he just be so cold....and detached?
Re: GRRR..... puddles6923: i know how you feel, my husband does the same thing with our daughter.
he gets her maybe once or twice a month for 2-3 hours, as it stands he has not called to check on her all week, he called to have a conversation with me, and he never once mentioned our daughter, and on top of that he has not seen in in two weeks, he was suppose to came and got her today, but he didn't, and she want be 3 until 12-13. so, you keep being strong for your little angel and he will be strong for you. if i did not have my little angel or her strength, i don't know what i'd do. kids are full of strenghth and courage, so, y'all just help each other out, be each other's rock. you will be surprised at how much your little angel will help you.
good luck, i'm here if you wanna talk
Re: GRRR..... whythisnow: I'm sorry for you but I get really pissed when Ex's treat their kids like crap.
I thought I had it bad but you win. Pretty lousy game we are in.
FIDO
Re: GRRR..... turboss: omg...bless his little heart...bless your heart...i am wondering if I am going to have to deal with that when my daughter gets that age and it terrifies me...maybe not though...she already is pulling away from her daddy (she just turned 1) and sometimes she won't have anything to do with him...but oh gosh...i cannot imagine the heartache of that. God bless you and your son....some people are real jerks...oh he will sooo regret that one day...
turboss :(
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