Re: "who's youre daddy" mrlament: newlife,
thank you i need to take this medicine w/out any water. i appreciate your help. see the thing is my wife, from the time she left a little over a year ago has said, come down (Ga.) to- dont come down, to come down but you cant stay here. i have a friend that says you gotta go and i know if i want any kind of relationship with my children i'll mave to move to Ga. which is fine, as soon as i am financially capable i plan to...but thats a long ways off. I have a plan, and thats whats driving me now. "aint no mountain high, aint no valley low..." i'm sorry for your husband decission not to be involved ...he will most certainly regret it. and for that i'm sorry for your whole family, especially him because he' the one who will be loosing out the most.
Re: "who's youre daddy" BONILLAK: I'm glad you have a plan. Our court sysytem here made each of us go to a divorcing parents seminar and they said under no circumstances should the parent live further than a town or two away as both parents need to be close enough for the kids. My ex lives in the next town but makes no difference to us if he lives next door as he kinda forgot they exist. You know his new life is full of green grass. He went 14yrs without seeing his father and barely talks to the man today...You would think he would know better than to blow his kids off, rarely see them, never call, etc. I should have taken note of how distant he is with his parents, siblings, etc and ran for the hills years ago. I hope his green grass wilts real quick so I can watch and smile.
Re: "who's youre daddy" hardened_heart1970: hey mrl, old buddy old pal... lol
hey. why not go for custody? there are men, (like me) who can raise kids just as good, if not better than some mothers...
i wasnt going to let the ex show the kids their side of life, cause if i did, what the hell would my daughters grow up to be like?
so, this is the best option. having kids is only the begginning. taking care of them, and teaching them is the start of the rest of their lives. they look up to us. can you fight for custody?
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