They never change Hopeless: Just wanted to give a quick update to my situation. Married 12 yrs, then got the I just dont love you any more. Still dont know if there is someone else, I dont think so, but oh well. Its been over 3 months, and I have tried everything. Nothing will ever bring the marriage back. I know in my heart that I have given it my all.
She still claims that she did a lot of trying when we were still together, and I apparently cannot apologize enough for not seeing it.
Either way, the moral of this post is to try to help the newbies to this divorce thing that THEY DONT COME BACK!
Get yourself together, dive into your kids life or work or someone else. Just do what ever you have to do to get over them. It sounds harsh, but they have gotten over you.
sorry for the rotten news!
Re: They never change minneapolis: I know that you're right...I just don't want to believe it.
Even though it's been almost a year since my ex left, and even though I really don't think I would take him back anymore....I still hope that he'll come back.
Sometimes hope and intelligence do not go hand in hand.
Re: They never change Whirlpool: I would agree. You are better off moving on with your life. I try and think to myself the reasons why I would want her back. My marriage sucked and she treated me like crap. When you are dumped it seems you only remember the good times, start thinking about the bad times for once. I had alot of good times but they were early on, the last few years I was treated like crap. It helps a little. That is the best thing, once people have it in their head it is over they usually mean it. Move along with you life, you only live once so wasting emotional energy and time into something dead is useless.
Re: They never change jadedangel: [quote author=minneapolis link=topic=22074.msg205537#msg205537 date=1133024359">
I know that you're right...I just don't want to believe it.
Even though it's been almost a year since my ex left, and even though I really don't think I would take him back anymore....I still hope that he'll come back.
Sometimes hope and intelligence do not go hand in hand.
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[color=navy"> Yep ... wouldn't consider myself a newbie --- and I also know I need to keep hearing it . I know it's true-- I just don't want it to be. Just like Minn said -- one's head and one's heart .. do not seem to see eye to eye on things.
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Re: They never change Falcon554: Its been 3 months only. Who knows where you will be in a year. Im sure one day my wife will want me back, who knows if I will still be around. Thats the thing we cant control them as much as we want to.
Its been 6 months for me and we are again friends. But we have gone from friends to enemys about 6 times in the last 6 months.
Just hang in there and go on thats all you can do. And who knows what the future holds. My mom and dad got divorced and married again, I know alot of people that have done that. Sometimes it just takes time to grow as a person after being married.
Hell at this point in time I could care less about being married to anyone. Think im done with marriage anyway.
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