Re: Been a little over a month since the bomb dropped Falcon554: I to lived in the same house for a month and 1/2. Whats really weird is that for that month and 1/2 we got along great, sure there were hard times but we had some of the best times we ever had in that month and 1/2.
Very weird it was. But I agree get out. when I lived at my house my wife really went out of her way not to hurt me. no online chats, no phone calls and crap like that. Just get out as soon as you can.
Re: Been a little over a month since the bomb dropped Lumpy: [quote author=Whirlpool link=topic=22075.msg205557#msg205557 date=1133028175">
Thanks for the kind and wise words. As I once heard before, it is a big crap sandwich and we all have to take a bite.
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But you don't have to ask for seconds...
Re: Been a little over a month since the bomb dropped Gabo: I ate the whole sandwich and now is stuck on my troat.
Re: Been a little over a month since the bomb dropped lilly10: [quote author=Jabe link=topic=22075.msg205632#msg205632 date=1133038387">
I ate the whole sandwich and now is stuck on my troat.
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Jabe you were only suppose to take a bite not eat the whole damn thing! Now what do you need the Hymlic??
Re: Been a little over a month since the bomb dropped hurtnlost: whirlpool- I am very sorry to hear what you are going through. I am in a similar situation. My husband and I have been together for 10 years and married for 7 when this August my husband dropped the bomb on me that he was wanting a divorce. I was and am still in shock and we are still living in the same house until the divorce finalizes and we can sell it b/c we both cannot afford it alone as well. I have really been struggling to move on as well b/c I cannot detach when he is in the same home even though he has and tells me it is no big deal I should just move on. We have 2 kids together, I did not read where you said if you had any? Anyways, all I know to tell you is there are going to be really bad days,ok days, and good days sometimes too. The thing I keep trying to tell myself is that why should I try to get my ex to come back to me and want him back when he has hurt me so bad. Part of me would want to take him back but I would not b/c if he loved me he would not have done this to me. I hope everything works out for you, stay in touch with OJAR - it is really helpful!!
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