Hey everyone(life is moving on) Dire Wolf: Just wanted to pop in a nd say hello and thank you to everyone who helped me to get through, what was probably, the worst time of my life. 21/2 - 3 months ago I thought all was lost and that there would be no moving past this devistation.
Many of you were there for me then and you have no idea just how much you helped me. I will forever be in your debt. I'm still going through the proceedures involved in the actual divorce but I can now see that light at the end of the tunnel.
My kids are adjusting well, I sold my house, my stbx is now pregnant and homeless(I know I shouldn't be happy about this but I can't help it), and I have been seeing a wonderful woman who appreciates all that I have to offer. I'm just in such a good place and it seems as though things are moving up for the first time in a long time.
I just wanted to give you an update on where I am now and to take the time to say thank you from the bottom of my heart. I don't know what I would have done had I not had OJAR to turn to. I will pop in here as often as I can to say hi and offer any advice and moral support to those in need in repayment for what was given me. Take care everyone.
Re: Hey everyone(life is moving on) lilly10: Dire Wolf,
This is great to hear and I am so happy that things are turning around for the better. You sound very much at peace. :)
Re: Hey everyone(life is moving on) Sittingbear: Dire wolf...
Glad to hear that you are keeping up with the good life...
Yet there is a problem....actually it is mine...yet your opinion would greatly lift the fog of confusion on me....around me...
here goes..
You share this
"Many of you were there for me then and you have no idea just how much you helped me. I will forever be in your debt."
First of all allow me to share that I lift you of this debt that you have created without my knowing....Understand that here in the Ojar...many if not all of us ... will not forget where we came from...personally I began alot of my serious healing and adjustment to a better life ...here in Ojar...all the good people here in Ojar have helped , supported me as well...they all gave their 100 percent support in their best outfits... and I took my need and applied it too my best abilities at the time....still do in fact..
There is no debt..because all the people within the Ojar have what is called unconditional giving..
.which is they are spiritually mature enough to give away a piece of their hearts, understanding, and respect,love, compassion, time ,without expecting anything in return....I too give from the heart...I get nothing in return nor expect any payments....A "thank you" comes along my way from my give away of love and support...and my heart is filled up again...yet what good is it to hoard the gratitude...I choose to remain within ojar...and give my best...hopefully then, I will keep the circle of love, caring, sharing and support alive,,in a place where it is safe and fun at times...So ....
Mr Wolf...don't be a stranger....and visit us often...love them success sharing of yours...choose the good life...later dude
sittingbear
Re: Hey everyone(life is moving on) changed4ever: Good to see your name up on the boards Dire. I haven't posted regularly in a while, but I know how you feel about the great support you got from OJAR. I feel the same way. I think that I'll always remember your story. I'm so happy that you and the kids are doing well. Keep in touch, I'll be looking for future updates. I have no doubt that there are only good things in store for your future. Take care of yourself.
