Re: What do you guys think about this...need advice Falcon554: Go out have fun. But dont fall for someone, that would be the worse thing possible right now. Take it slow. Maybe your H will come out of his fog. If not atleast your out there.
Re: What do you guys think about this...need advice minneapolis: I think it's a fantastic plan. I love the idea of setting a deadline - you do need some time to be alone and mope and cry and feel sorry for yourself, but you know that eventually that needs to end. I think that part is wonderful.
I also thinking asking to tag along is a great idea. I think once you ask the first time, the invite will be extended to you time and again. And while I'm not a teacher, I don't think that should be a big deal. It's not like you're going out with your students (I'd have to call you Mary Kay Latourneau if you were...).
Life is for living, and it sounds like you get that.
p.s. techick - christopher moore, eh? Love him!!
Re: What do you guys think about this...need advice Lumpy: I think it's a great idea also. Let loose a little too. Drink too much, enter a wet t-shirt contest, kiss a stranger etc. I'm wondering why you haven't taken the ring off. Has your ex shown any signs of turning around? If not I think you need to take that step. I think that you'll find it to be freeing. I don't think that dating while seperated should be considered cheating. I suppose it depends on circumstances. If your ex is asking you for some time to clear his head before a decision is made then it might be inappropriate. If things are moving towards divorce then I think you owe it to yourself to move on.
Re: What do you guys think about this...need advice JerniganReturns: That sounds like a good idea to me. Sometimes, having fun is a choice. You can't have fun if you don't *try* to have fun. Sometimes it's just a matter of working yourself into that frame of mind.
Re: What do you guys think about this...need advice manda: [quote author=Lumpy link=topic=22102.msg205974#msg205974 date=1133125768">
I think it's a great idea also. Let loose a little too. Drink too much, enter a wet t-shirt contest, kiss a stranger etc. I'm wondering why you haven't taken the ring off. Has your ex shown any signs of turning around? If not I think you need to take that step. I think that you'll find it to be freeing. I don't think that dating while seperated should be considered cheating. I suppose it depends on circumstances. If your ex is asking you for some time to clear his head before a decision is made then it might be inappropriate. If things are moving towards divorce then I think you owe it to yourself to move on.
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Okay, other than the wet t-shirt contest, I am thinking very hard about all you said. Yes, he does want more time. But seeing as he's had since August, when is enough enough? Or is that my decision (hee hee--wanting Lumpy to make decisions for me)?
I have told him that he has until the holidays. After that, I WILL be going on with my life and dating and that he would be SORRY--all this said in anger, of course, a while back (I wish I wouldn't say all that--so foolish and young sounding, but oh well). So is that fair warning?
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