Re: When a girl says.... teachinblues: lifes short go for it.
its not like you haven't thought about it already.
what is the worst that can happen? isn't just the being in the same spot your already in.
What is the best that could happen?
Sounds to me like that night was your chance so the real question is do you want to try and make another night like that?
Re: When a girl says.... avoj: yes life is to short. i do like her a lot, but she has a g/f. i'm just gonna be her friend. maybe someday it will be more than that, but not right now since there is another person involved.
my question to you all is, from what she said, "she & her g/f have a good relationship and she makes her happy. That this is awkward b/c she does like me & likes my company. Said she hopes we can become good friends & she is flattered that I like her"
do you think she might like me for more than a friend? that's all i'm asking. :)
Re: When a girl says.... JimB: [quote author=avoj link=topic=22508.msg209418#msg209418 date=1134007176">
do you think she might like me for more than a friend? that's all i'm asking. :)
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She might. But it sounds like for now she is choosing not to, and it's important for you to respect that choice. Unless, that is, you decide that you must have her now. In which case you pursue her aggressively and to hell with her choice. Some people like it when someone else comes along and changes their mind for them. Other people hate it and that will just drive them away.
Ain't being single great? ::)
Re: When a girl says.... avoj: ha ha. single is awesome sometimes & other times i hate it, especially when its cold outside ;)
i would never be aggressive with her right now. she & some othe rpeople are coming to my house & she wants to pour hot wax on each other & do body shots. she even wants to go to a sex toy store with me & help me pick out a ummm you know...sex toy.
so see why i'm so confused & asking why.
Re: When a girl says.... frontier74: If you're only planning to be her friend, why does it matter? :P
Seriously though, it sounds to me like she might be attracted to you, but the feelings aren't so strong that they would cause her leave her current girlfriend. It may be little more than infatuation mixed with curiousity. If you wanted to try, you could possibly help her feelings for you to grow, if that's what you want to happen. Just try not to end up as "the other woman." That sort of situation is usually hard on everyone involved.
In order to keep the possibility alive, even though you aren't actively pursuing it, you'll need to keep the romantic tension going, or else the friendship will eventually fall into the "just friends" category, if it hasn't already.
Long distance relationships rarely last very long, so as long as the attraction truly is there, you should have a shot with her.
It sounds to me like you already know what course of action you wish to take, so I say go for it. Just remember to play it cool with her, from now on. Continue the light flirting, but let her make the moves, when it comes to those hugs and kisses on the cheak -- and no more hand up the shirt action (unless she asks ;D).
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