This is why im not giving up Falcon554: Took my daughter home tonight, wife got home about 7 30 from her job, she took a bath and we sat and watched some TV. God we get along so well, we talked about her day, about my day, about the kids. I was there till about 8 45. I got ready to leave and gave my daughter a kiss and walked by my wife and grabed her hand and she grabed mine. I know its not much and does not mean a damn thing but a month ago she would of never done that.
She cheated, and I still can look at her with love. I think it had to come from the day after I found out and I forgave her totally. And now in the middle of this MCL I know all I can do is wait and not bring us up at all. Be her friend and hope for the best.
I love my family and I love my wife, no matter what mistakes she has made no matter how much pain she has caused me, there will be noone in the world that makes me as happy as her.
Thats why im not giving up, not now not even after the divorce is final. As long as she is not married again or serious with someone i will fight for my family.
Tonight was more about my family then it was about her, she saw how I was holding my baby girl I saw the smile on her face. Woman wake the hell up and get some help!!!
Re: This is why im not giving up ohill: Falcon,
I firmly believe that fighting for your family is the right thing to do. Many people wouldn't say it's not the smartest or best thing...but I think it's the right thing. Just thought I'd share.
Re: This is why im not giving up tnk: Hi...
Good luck to you...
Just be careful...
If my ex husband would have done more of what you're doing, trying to be a friend, and less of trying to be a pr*ck all the time, maybe we would of had a chance...Oh well...what was meant to be...is what it is....
Take Care....
Re: This is why im not giving up Whirlpool: Falcon,
You don't have to convince us of anything. Personally I still think you holding onto this is doing an injustice to yourself as you only live once. I would hate to see you 20 years down the road wondering what the hell happened to the last 20 years of your life. But as I said a few times, it does not matter what we think, it matters what you think. Most people here would not be doing what you are doing and will never see the logic in it, that is just how it is. But that does not matter, what matters is what you are content with. Sometimes the heart takes over the job of the head, and the hearts job is not to think! So sometimes you need people to point things out for you. That was all we were doing. Don't sweat it man, if you are cool with your situation that is all that matters.
Re: This is why im not giving up TrueBlue: Falcon,
I think you have to do what will help you. What I mean is that you have to live with yourself for the rest of your life. Nobody else does. I think a person has to put in all the effort that they can and when he or she is at the end of the rope or starting over again, then it will be with the knowledge that he or she did everything that could be done.
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