Re: New Here - Need Advice Dolphin Close: Your story is very similar to mine. I hope you don't have the same end result that I had which was an adulterous affair that had a speedpass to divorce. I'm very sorry for all you're going through. I remember the heartache of waiting by the phone each minute waiting for him to give me an update on what the F he's doing becuase he won't answer calls. Pm me if you'd like to vent, share, kill time. I'm here to listen.
Take care.
Re: New Here - Need Advice ChiefWiggum: Jaime,
The stress would kill me. If I were you, I'd consider not being around when he gets home. I like this for two reasons:
1. It lets him know you don't approve
2. (more important): It reduces your "what is going to happen when he comes home" stress. You would be determining what happens when he comes home. What will happen is you'll be somewhere else doing whatever it is you want to do.
Good luck and keep us posted.
CW
Re: New Here - Need Advice shockedandamazed: jash - your story also reminds me of mine. Hubby took a new job and three weeks later, he had turned into a completely different man. We were married 8 years four days before he told me he didn't love me anymore. Checked his cell phone records, her number was ALL over it...they were tlaking every 5-10 minutes. He lied and said there wasn't anybody else. I hired a PI and got the information I needed - divorce will be final in 20 days.
I hope your story does not end like this...but it doesn't sound good, prepare yourself for the worst.
Hang in there and PM me if you need to chat.
Re: New Here - Need Advice snkpack5: Call the girl back and explain to her what's going on. Based on her reaction, you might be able to get a better idea of what's going on and you might be doing her a favor cause she might not know he's married either. But I don't think you're imagining things. Something is definitely not right here.
