Re: Karma Falcon554: [quote author=Whirlpool link=topic=22544.msg209716#msg209716 date=1134083788">
[quote author=Falcon554 link=topic=22544.msg209649#msg209649 date=1134067759">
"She called me this morning just not knowing what to do. I again got the if you would only move back in and not freak out when I went out with others things would be ok."
" I did feel for her on the phone tho, I can tell she just does not know what to do."
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Typical, blaming your reaction to her inappropriate activities rather than her taking part in them. The second comment quoted about sent me flying out my chair. Come on man, sick or not she is blaming you for this! You should feel her but not the way that you are. I commend you though for your response to her, at least you are remaining firm there. I understand you care deeply about her, but don't buy too much into the sickness thing man. To a point it is easy to understand why they may be doing this, but only to that point. The point would be one where you can forgive them, realize it was not about you, and move on content.
She is not a scorpio by any chance is she? Sounds like something my wife would say, and so far most people like my wife are the same sign as her. I never used to believe in that stuff but I am starting to!
As for karma, if my wife had things come back around to bite her in the butt I cannot say I would feel sorry for her.
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LOL im a scorpio!!! She is an Aries, well it is kinda both our faults, we were in bankrupcy (chapter 13) and when this started I started a new job well the payments did not come out of my checks, I knew it but I needed the money to get a place. We just did not think they would get the car so damn fast. 2 days after it was dismissed the got the car.
Trust me she knew this was comming its was just a shock to her that it happend so fast without her having a chance to talk to anyone about it.
Re: Karma TrueBlue: I used to live where you are (according to your bio) and there are some dealerships that will help her get a car even with bad credit. I know, I used one. I think it would be a good idea if you just gave her some suggestions. Knowing that this would happen may not help the situation, but there is nothing that you can do about it, so move on and if you feel like you need to help her, give her the names of some of those dealerships.
Re: Karma Falcon554: [quote author=TrueBlue link=topic=22544.msg209736#msg209736 date=1134086996">
I used to live where you are (according to your bio) and there are some dealerships that will help her get a car even with bad credit. I know, I used one. I think it would be a good idea if you just gave her some suggestions. Knowing that this would happen may not help the situation, but there is nothing that you can do about it, so move on and if you feel like you need to help her, give her the names of some of those dealerships.
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She might have found a car, my sons g/f mom has 5, but for now im letting her use my old POS just to get to work. Sucks she had a nice 2004 car with 30k and now she will be driving a 86 POS.
Re: Karma barelybreathing: Karma is really alive and well.
It's life's little funny way of giving you a reality check to straighten up.
My ex has gotten his fill of Karma. And it is all self-inflicted.
Just keep your nose to the grindstone Falcon, you have come so far and are so enlightened now. Your "self" growth is apparent, admirable and so wonderful!
BB
Re: Karma lapse of reason: Hey everyone. If this whole karma thing is true, then what are we all here at Ojar paying for? What did we do to deserve this? What are we being punished for?
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