Re: TWO MONTHS AGO TODAY... hardened_heart1970: hello. no dont call, text or anything..
if you do, after that you start at zero again. do you want to go back? you have gotten better, just is so hard to realise it.
i could sit and think of the past but i dont. i hate my ex, and that has helped me advance i think...
whirlpool--- you DONT HAVE TO watch her man buffet. YOU are chosing to. dont let threats hold you back. you need to let go, and go your seperate way for your own health.
by staying there, its not going to make her change. only she can want it. SO GET OUT. it needs to be done.........my .0000002 worth
Re: TWO MONTHS AGO TODAY... SadEyez: well, if he calls should I answer? last night I had 3 dreams that we were 2gether & I had the overwhelming urge to call- but didnt. I spent most of my night light night crying uncontrollably.
so if im not calling & he does ( fat chance though) do i answer? do i answer his "what are u doing tonight" or his "I was THINKING ABOUT coming over there and seeing u so we can talk & watch tv"?
keep in mind my husband did all these horrible things over the phone @his job! so all his co-workers know ! (im ashamed & embarrassed)
he also said "if i could divorce u over the phone i would"
Re: TWO MONTHS AGO TODAY... snkpack5: Sad Eyez
My ex left me when I was eight months pregnant. I went through the motions of filing for a divorce but I would have halted everything if he had shown any sign of wanting to reconcile, but he didn't. It took me over a year to get to the point where I knew I would under no circumstances ever take him back.
Its human to hurt and you should give yourself proper time to heal. But you will get over it, trust me. Someday someone will wipe all that pain away and it will be almost as if it never happened.
Keep your chin up. It gets better!!!!
Re: TWO MONTHS AGO TODAY... minneapolis: Why are you not okay? Because it's only been 2 months!!! That's nothing. It's okay to not be okay. Really.
And to answer your other question - yes, it does get better in time. In a few weeks I will hit the year mark since my husband left. A year. I never thought I'd see a year go by. But here it is. And it's been a crappy year, I'm not going to lie to you. But I am certainly miles and miles away from where I was a year ago...even seven months ago.
It gets better. I promise. Just hang in there. Don't call him. Don't text him. Just wait.
Re: TWO MONTHS AGO TODAY... dontgetit: hey what do you know we have the same anniversary....HAPPY ANNIVERSAY........
October 13th a day to remember - thats the day my wife ran off with her BF of 3 weeks set up house with him and left me with 10 year old........
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