Re: WOW!!! lapse of reason: I wish you the best my friend. I too hope this is the beginning of something good. Hopefully, the two of you can be stronger after going through this.
Be very careful though. Tread carefully as she might still be on the fence about this relationship.
I will pray for you tonight. Keep us all posted.
Re: WOW!!! Falcon554: [quote author=Konan link=topic=22570.msg209974#msg209974 date=1134180912">
Hi Falcon,
Well, I'll give you a hard time. I hate to be the party-pooper here, but she's been with multiple guys, cheated on you I presume(?), and then she decides on her schedule that now that she has a ton of problems and could use rescuing, she wants to "work on the marriage"? Come on!!
"None of the other guys were ever going to take me away from you." Are you f-ing kidding me here?!? Is that like saying "I just wanted to get a little action on the side, but you're my number one"? You weren't number one when she was with them, my friend.
Listen to your body, Falcon. There's a very good reason you feel "scared to death." Deep down you know that if you let her back in she'll hurt you again.
I hope I'm wrong, but I don't think so.
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Take a look at any site that deal with MCL (mid life crisis) She has gone step for step down the line. I know what she is going thur has 0 to do with me. That and I know its a sickness, most come thru and go back to there partner. If you had any dealings with my wife you would see the sickness, that has given me a way to detach yet still love.
Right now I may be starting to see the frist steps of her comming out of the fog. She hit bottom yesterday when she saw her care being towed away. Its going ot be slow I know that, but im not giving up on 21 years, no way no how, not right now not this close to then end (I hope its the end).
You just have to let go of your ego. Know its now about you, she is sick and if you ever gave a damn about her then you deal with it or you run away. I chose to deal with it. This is the mother of my kids, the woman who took care of me for 21 years, im not walking away now.
Re: WOW!!! ajw: I think the point is Falcon...everyone is happy for you that maybe your life is falling back into place,just be careful cause on a rollercoaster ride like you have been on these last few months they save the worst bit till right at the end.
hope it works out
Andy
Re: WOW!!! Falcon554: [quote author=ajw link=topic=22570.msg209995#msg209995 date=1134192111">
I think the point is Falcon...everyone is happy for you that maybe your life is falling back into place,just be careful cause on a rollercoaster ride like you have been on these last few months they save the worst bit till right at the end.
hope it works out
Andy
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I know, do you know what i expect, that this was nothing but her needing money, then again it may of been the thing that got her to step out of the fog.
Re: WOW!!! ajw: i hope it was......but beware of her building up to a big drama to finish it all off.
I know you dont want to jinx it or spoil it,but dont just let her march back in on her terms or i fear 6 months down the line this will happen again
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