Re: Crap I did it again Lumpy: I rather enjoy being a smart@$$, particularly where the ex is involved. As long as it's not in front of the kids I don't really see anything wrong with it. The main thing you need to consider is if she can construe that she's causing you pain. You don't want to give her the satisfaction. My policy lately is to give as good as I get. If she's being reasonable with me, I hold my tongue. I feel that I don't owe her anything more than tit for tat at this point....