Re: Tick-tock Tick-tock JNA: My ex did the same too me...
Classic sign of an abuser too move you miles away...Just my opinion as I do not know the whole story...
I spent X-Mas alone last year also so know a bit how you feel
The best thing too do is not contact her at all
IMO...Only mine
Absence makes the heart grow fond...
JNA
No Contact does better
Then she stand the chance of losing something
Hope this makes sense and helps
Re: Tick-tock Tick-tock Dio: Yeah. Since there has been no dialog, I am commiting to myself that if my letter (have you read it?) has no impact, I will cut off contact completely. My wife, however, is very good at hardening herself and will probably not cave to the typical technique of "absence makes the heart grow fonder". She is quite capable of dropping everything and making a permanant change in her life.
We usually did this together though. I foolishly never thought I would be the subject of the change.
My situation is pretty much hopeless, I think, but I feel like I have to try. She has to be the one who gives up on this relationship, because I never would.
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We usually did this together though. I foolishly never thought I would be the subject of the change.
My situation is pretty much hopeless, I think, but I feel like I have to try. She has to be the one who gives up on this relationship, because I never would.
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I was that way too...
Funny thing is when I was finally "done" with her that is when she came back around...
She was sort of the same type...
Knew what she wanted and who...
I wish you luck my friend...
If there is anything I can do dont hesitate to ask
I know the pain all too well
JNA
