Re: Your post-breakup health JNA: [quote author=ChiefWiggum link=topic=23061.msg213973#msg213973 date=1135392118">
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IMO divorce is one of the most stressful events in life... [/quote">
This was by far the most stressful, painful event I've ever had. I think the only thing worse would be losing a child. Maybe that and not being able to feed your family.
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Yup...
It "disrupts" your whole life is why it causes health problems sometimes
You are emotionally torn to pieces
You have the courts messing with you
You have work that is disrupted
You have people taking sides that were once family or close friends
Then the kids thing...
Needs I go on
I have been through it and know
It is "H*ll" is the only way to put it in words
JNA
Re: Your post-breakup health babes014u: Chief, having been thru the loss of a child and going thru a divorce, let me tell you the pain of a divorce has nothing on losing a child. This pain I am feeling now barely even scratches the surface of the pain I felt when I lost my son. Divorce is indeed stressful and it hurts like hell, but it is EASY compared to what I've already been thru. If this is the worst of it... I'm doing great.
Re: Your post-breakup health C-Note: [quote author=ChiefWiggum link=topic=23061.msg213973#msg213973 date=1135392118">
This was by far the most stressful, painful event I've ever had. I think the only thing worse would be losing a child. Maybe that and not being able to feed your family.
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Well this is nice to hear from someone else. My recent relapse into depression after having my Ex call me makes more since now. The reason I had her contact me was because I learned of a child she had that maybe mine. I couldn't even get the question out.. I could hear it in her voice that if I asked for a paternity test to prove if it's mine I'd get shot down.
The 2 days following the phone call I entered the worst depression I've ever experienced in my life. Now I'm moving on from zero. Starting the process again. But this time I'm moving on knowing it's not just her I'm loosing, I'm loosing what maybe my child too. All I have is a photo. Her closest friend I see from time to time kept this secret well. When I showed her friend the photo I could tell she knew and she told me to let it go. Everyone I consulted with told me to let it go including legal consul. My Ex left,.. had what maybe my child and never looked back. I wish I never found out. I feel I'm the only person in the world right now who doesn't get it. Doesn't get why it's OK to not pursue learning if I'm the father and wanting to know my child. I'll never have that chance. Moving on, it's been 2 weeks strong step by step dealing with this.
Re: Your post-breakup health Trying2Hope: My health, I'd say, has been slightly worse. I'm trying to work on that, though. :)
Re: Your post-breakup health JNA: [quote author=Batman link=topic=23061.msg214025#msg214025 date=1135402703">
My health, I'd say, has been slightly worse. I'm trying to work on that, though. :)
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One Day At A Time...
Start with one "good" habit and build another a week or month at a time...
JNA
