Daughters First Visit With Her Mom In One Month dontgetit: Well my daughter saw her mom last night (in my mind rather sad they only spent 1 hour together), her mom gave her a couple of Christmas gifts and that was about it....
My daughter came into the car telling me that her mom had a lot of questions for her - the most important one being "do you think you will ever come to my new house" (she ran off with another man in October)...My daughter told her in one word NO, my daughter told me that her mom's facial expression changed (from happy to sad - but only for a second).....Her mom asked her why and she told her it was because it made her uncomfortable - my stbxw was smart enough to tell her that she would respect that and not force her....My wife also asked my daughter if I was calm and not angry (you may remember from previous posts that my wife had asked my GROWN daughter if I had changed), in part I think the separation was caused because I was one angry man (unemployment, lack of cash - the why me syndrom) - my daughter told her I was great etc, her mother also pumped her for information on things I had purchased since her departure (you have to remember that whrn my wife left the apartment was pretty much empty - we had just arrived in this city and I had just started a new job, the apartment is now fully furnished)...She also was asking about my mother who is very ill...
So what do you make off all the questions - is it just curiosity or something more.....
I have taken her back before and am longing for the day when she calls me so I can say NO THANKS....
I am wondering if all the questions mean that perhaps all is not well in her world - interestingly all the questions came AFTER my daughter told her NO she would never come to her house....
I am wondering if she is starting to understand she has lost her family and that perhaps she made a mistake...
Again it might be curiosity - but I do not know why she would care, if I was over the moon happy with my new love I would not ask one question about my ex or his home (I would not give a rat's a*s)...
So what do you folks think...
Re: Daughters First Visit With Her Mom In One Month superwife: How old is your daughter (the one she saw)? It may be curiosity. I never pump my daughter (she's almost six), I don't have to. She tells me more than I need to know, lol (good and bad). But there are things I wanted to know about her father's house (mostly related to living conditions, where she slept, did homework, etc). But it all came out in due time, w/out me asking.
It could be curiosity, ar there could be another motive. Of course I don't know your ex, but do you think she is trying to get custody of her? The questions about the house? Your disposition? Your sick mother (maybe you don't have time to care for youyr mother and your daughter). it could just be my mind wandering. Or, the fact that it's been a month, there's a lot to catch up on.
