something hit me dukey: a counsellor told me two things. i was constantly making excuses for my ex in the way she left, trying to blame it on me.
then she flat out said
1)she manipulated me
2)theres a whole world out there other then my ex
at that moment its like my ex seemed so small and miniscule. i dont know, i guess everyone has their own moments, but this seems to have a made my thinking alot more clearer, and given me more confidence..
Re: something hit me harmonix321: Congratulations on your progress. I am trying to get there. It will take time and more contact avoidance.
Re: something hit me jadedangel: [quote author=dukey link=topic=23086.msg214148#msg214148 date=1135490482">
at that moment its like my ex seemed so small and miniscule. i dont know, i guess everyone has their own moments, but this seems to have a made my thinking alot more clearer, and given me more confidence..
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[color=navy"> Hey ... it seems you have nearly made more progress than me ... continue with it -- surely it will help you.[/color">
