Re: How to take it slow??? Irony: Interesting thread...
One of the people I had invited for new years eve was a lady I had met at an art gallery party a couple weeks earlier.
After everyone else had gone home we wound up slow dancing here in my office (at home) and then dove out to the beach and talked and looed at the stars and hugged and laughed and I have now seen her twice since. She is fun to be with, makes me laugh and think. She is a sweethart to say the least.
Never thought this would happen and so soon but I'm kinda seeing her and comparing her to stbxw and stbxw isn't coming up so good in the comparison.
Soon after we married, stbxw became argumentative, angry, distant and sometimes downright abusive.
Mistake she and I had made was to jump right in the sack early on and we kinda skipped over the 'friends' part. As jna said somewhere else around here, YOU MISS THE DREAM...NOT THE REALITY !
Ms. New Years Eve is a 'nice' catholic girl, and although she is obviously liking me, she has no intention of jumping physical with me after a couple times together other than some serious hugging and other stuff.
This is so damned unusual for me and i'm kinda liking it.. Maybe this is truly the right way to go.
Whether I ever were to see her again or not, she has changed my persective on things and I like that.
Slow and steady :P
It was just
Re: How to take it slow??? LifeisBetter: slow and steady is good and I think that is the only way to make a lasting, fulfilling relationship (I definitely learned this the hard way). With my new guy I am trying to take it slow, and I think he is too.
The thing about calling though... maybe she is waiting for you to call her. It would be a shame to miss out on a possible relationship just because you were both waiting for each other to call. Give her a call. If she can't talk or doesn't want to, then you can leave her a message and then the ball is in her court to make the next move. Just a thought.
Re: How to take it slow??? whatnext: I would call when you FEEL like it, not when you THINK you should.
But not the same day :)
Re: How to take it slow??? snkpack5: Alright, I'll be the brave woman to let ALL you men in on a little secret MANY of we women have. The more we like you, the longer you will have to wait for sex. Please tell me if you women agree . . .
Re: How to take it slow??? Plucky: I agree, snkpack. We women know that men won't hang around if we put out too soon - we're on to that little game. If we really like you, we'll hold out. No matter how difficult it is ;)
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