Re: Please read my story and help me solsken: Hey NeverEver..don't feel so down. Remember...she was really attracted to you in the first place.. so you must be handsome, charismatic and soembody worth being with. Just because she's not ready to commit herself doesn't mean she doesn't think you weren't worth it. Have a think about what you might have done when you were 19..?
The first 'real' love is the toughest but now you've got a taste like the rest of us romantic fools you'll be getting ready for more.
Keep smiling as best you can...you're worth it!
Re: Please read my story and help me flyaway: neverever, Please feel welcome here, and your english is fine.... You made mention in your last reply about all your friends being engaged or married...plaease don't try to compare yourself to others....as difficult as that is.... but instead, try to be happy alone. Just because you are alone right now, does not mean you have to be lonely. OH and I know how hard it is to put that little gem into practice...but apparently, it works for some folks. ::)
Going to the gym will be good for you, as well as sleeping and eating well. Take care of your physical needs, and the rest will follow, eventually.
Take care of yourself, NE!
Flyaway
Re: Please read my story and help me NeverEver: I'm so happy to read all your replies! Thanks very much, it just seems that i can't get a break, my mom called me today and yelled at me because she had a BIG fight with my dad, they fight alot but they are so depended on each other so they wont get divorce, so as the only child, i'm in between, and with my current relationship problems, i feel like my world is colapsing.
I've been having such a good life since last summer, i went to china for a long vacation, then i started my school well, then i met the girl, everything was wondeful. Then from the first day of this year, the girl broke up with me, i have troubles with my study, my parents keep fighting, i'm broke...... all the bad things come at the same time to me, i just think that such a nice guy like me dont deserve it. Its just not fair, sorry i might sound childish, but i'm really pissed right now, the depression has turned into anger. >:(
I complained to my friend till they got bored of me, so i have to let it out in here, and hope people from here can understand my situation and give me some advise and comfort words.......
Re: Please read my story and help me snkpack5: NE,
Its Murphy's Law that if the s**t hits the fan it splatters everywhere! I know it seems bad now when everything goes haywire at once, but eventually things will work out and you'll be fine again.
It sucks when relationships end before you are ready for them to, but you are a young man with plenty of time to find someone else. There is someone out there who will appreciate you. Focus on yourself for a little bit, make yourself the priority and you will eventually find someone who will make you a priority in their life as well.
Best of luck to you. Keep us posted!
Re: Please read my story and help me Jaimjaim: Yes, please do not get discouraged! You are 25 and when I was that age I worried too! Now I'm 27 and single yet again! It's easy to say, but try not to think about your age. Trust me we have plenty of time to find someone, and we will! Keep the faith! By the way,I am an only child too, and it is easy to feel caught in the middle when parents fight.
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