Re: Wherein Tara's mother introduces the worst reason to get married ever. flowersdirtandgardengirl: Oh, and I didn't become a stripper or get a boob job. For a while there I DID think about giving it all up for marriage and a family and kids, the whole nine yards. And I will probably never go to medical school and have made my peace with that. But at least I can say it was because I followed my own heart and not my mom's zany, sagely "advice"!