I dont know what to do... PiscesGoddess: :'( I need some advice ..or something..kick in the head ..I dont know..
Well as everyone knows hubby and I dont have the greatest relationship..and he can be verbally abusive at times..often..anyway..we are hurting seriously financially..which I have to hear about all the time..I mean all the time..
Well I got my child support in the mail yesterday..which honestly is a piddly 120 bucks..and I cant find it..I mean I even dumped the garbage out..sifted through it in case it got thrown away and its nowhere..because I knew I would hear it from him. Well he had took the day off to sleep..(whatever!) and when the baby slept I slept for a bit ..I got up after him and he asked if I knew where the check was..I said no..I looked everywhere..he started screaming at me..I said all I can is call and ask the state to put a stop payment on that check and get another one..he said that would take a week..I said I dont know what else to do..He says..I dont know how you could be so stupid...it has to be here.. I said well then YOU find it..and IM SORRY I cant be as perfect as you are. Well with that he said he was leaving I say fine..He starts kicking things slamming doors..yelling in the other room...Comes out to leave..Im holding Sam..he kicks something and slams the door about 3 times.
He calls me from work and asks if I found it before he has to go borrowing money from his family.. I said no but I would try and ask my dad..People I called my EX to see if could borrow money from him..and he said if he had it he would loan it to me..I havent spoken to my dad in months..I dont know what to do..I cant take the verbal assaults..I have called to set up a meeting with a domestic abuse shelter..One of my resolutions to myself was not to put up with this crap..Im so tired of being treated less than.
I just..dont ..deserve this.... :'(
Pisces
Re: I dont know what to do... Peaceandquiet: Damn girl, no you don't deserve this. You don't deserve any of that. Things get lost, it will turn up or be relaced, but this isn't about money girl, this is about your safety and the safety of your child. Something has got to give girl. PM coming your way
Re: I dont know what to do... yella: Ok... PG!
Get yourself to a shelter pronto! I mean that.
There's no reason that you and that beautiful baby should go through this stuff. You're a beautiful woman, and you don't deserve or need this.
My aunt (who passed away 6 years ago) went in and out of abusive relationships, one of them I saw first hand when I was 4. Please, please, please get out of there.
He's made you miserable for months, hun. It's time to go before something really bad happens.
Also, I'd try talking to your dad now. You need family and people you can trust.
You have to get out of there before things get too out of hand.
I'm going to PM you my e-mail address. If you need me, you let me know.
Re: I dont know what to do... down2basics: Aw....My baby! Bless your heart! He sounds like he needs anger management classes - NOW! Geez Louise!
Honey - that bus ticket is waiting for you! Just let me know where to send it!
I love you baby girl! You are still my Goddess!!!
d2b
Re: I dont know what to do... WhiskeyGirl: What an asshole!! >:( Of course you don't deserve this!!
I'm sorry sweety :( don't let him stress you out OR make you feel stupid! Shit happens...especially when you have a million other things on your mind like you do! I know how you feel about calling your dad for money...its a blow to the pride..there must be reasons you haven't talked to him in so long. I say let your hubby borrow the money...why not? It sure doesn't look like he could be any nastier and its not like you went and spent the money...
{{HUGS}}
I'm sorry girl!!
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