Re: Why the ... jadedangel: [color=navy"> Thanks you guys for everything you have to say ----
I might try and listen here soon enough .. : coughs: ... I get it -- I just ... yeahhh .... don't get it. I know you know what I mean.
Love you all ... :hugs: ... Thanks again...[/color">
Re: Why the ... JNA: Whats to get...
We Wuvs you too...
Yeah Right...
Did I say that...
LOL
JNA
Re: Why the ... Bea: Do I know about that one! Ouch...
Re: Why the ... LostTeacher: i do it too.....i think we all are. but....i know now that knowing is not better. knowing just makes me want more, which makes me more sad, which makes me want to know more....and you see the cycle.
i see now that i feel better when i don't know. i mean, i know he is with someone else, but i don't really need to know anymore than that. it just drives me nuts. it doesn't make it better for me, it makes it worse.
but it's taken me a year to figure that out. and it doesn't mean that i still don't want to find out stuff sometimes. i just don't go actively looking for it anymore.
and i agree with the one step forward, two steps back. going through that myself actually. have felt pretty sorry for myself in the last little while, getting sad, some tears, some dreams, not being able to focus on my work. it's all just part of the process.
just know that it's normal, and not to feel bad about feeling bad, if that makes any sense.
LT
