Re: advice needed about the ex in sex malex1984: This is a topic close to my heart. Me and my ex are very young only 21, we were together through school for 5 years and lived together for 3. Needless to say she was my first and only to this date.
She has another guy now who she cheated on me with and it still makes me sick to think of them sleeping together, i know we are both so young and we have our whole lives together but it is just so hard to imagaine or stop imagining her with another guy.
We have been seperated nearly 4 months and i admit i slept with another girl before christmas but it was horrible i couldnt stop thinking of my ex and afterwards it made me think of her more.
I know it is stuff because she was my first real love and lots of people like to discredit it but still whenever i see her i think she is beautiful and think about her in that way
what can i do or does this just pass