Is he really that stupid?? starzluv: does he really believe that since (until now) i did not have to pay rent, electric or oil, that i don't need money?? does he think there is a diaper fairy who just comes and drops off diapers? does he not realise it takes money for just about everything? i still have to have gas in the car pay the car insurance (which went down yeah) my phone bill, and then of course like i said diapers and everything else i need to buy to keep me and the kids from being stinky and gross. does he think it's all free? does he not relise how much i spend on diapers alone? i know he use to have a brain, where the he!! did it go cuz he sure doesn't seem to have one anymore.
Re: Is he really that stupid?? snkpack5: Probably.
Re: Is he really that stupid?? alonewith2: It's hard for the other parent to realize the expense side especially if they don't have to buy/provide anything!!!
Re: Is he really that stupid?? wendieann: LOL ;D
I think stupidness is common... My STBXH hasn't given me a dime since he ran off with the OW, and it bugs the heck out of me that his paychecks go to them partying, etc.
Meanwhile I have 4 kids, 2 in diapers, all the bills you said, PLUS, all the bills he left me with, etc.etc. >:(
I know that someday it will come back to me and he will end up paying me back child support/spousal support, etc....and then we will see who is laughing! ;D
He is crying right now he is broke...whatever, he left a family of 7 and supported us...I guess his OW and their mansion of a house is expensive!? Not my problem... ::)
During his supervised visits I have to send diapers etc...yet, he has to PAY for the visit!! LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL ;D And the OW isn't allowed to go...
What goes around, comes around...
The diaper fairy visits me too...and the food fairy, the money tree keeps growing in the back yard, and it rains dollar bills... LOL
It's a good thing my STBXH makes sure he has beer to drink, gas for his snowmachine and the OW car... ::) ::) I would hate to see him put out... ;D LOL ::)
Re: Is he really that stupid?? superwife: [quote author=starzluv link=topic=23591.msg219527#msg219527 date=1136481933">
i know he use to have a brain, where the he!! did it go cuz he sure doesn't seem to have one anymore.
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I know where mine ex's brain went, or at least what he's thinking with now.
Question (that needs to be considered)- who handled the money when you were together? I did, and he had no idea what our bills were like. He still doesn't b/c he hasn't asked, or given me a dime since he moved out.
Fortunately, I have no one in diapers, and only one child. I shouldn't complain too much, but it's still hard. Sadly she cannot watch her 'shows' until I get paid again, b/c the cable got turned off yesterday. I know it's not a necessity, but there's no free tv either (no antenna), and it's only a matter of time before the phone and internet get turned off too (there all hooked up thru the cable company). I have 10 days to pay electric, and don't even know about the cell.
But she's getting used to it- the cable 'broke' at daddy's house too (that's what he told her). I'm not sure why, since he has no bills to pay there. No credit card bills (I'm paying 'em), and he's in a double-income house with rent thats definitely less than mine, he can't get credit. So the least he could do is pay the cable bill. You'd think
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