Re: What the hell am I知 going to do?!?!?!?! threetimeloser: Tweety, you are a romantic and those are the nicest words I can say to you. Your email, though sweet and reflects what you feel in your heart, it tells me that if he pushes hard enough he will be able to just sweet talk you.
I don't want to insult you but you need to snap out of it and toughen up. It is ok to be sweet but not in this case. Your ex wants to use you as a convenient port chick. You know, whenever he is in town he can drop by and get some. He is dissapointed that you haven't responded to his charms. He is trying although he may not be good at it. The fact that you do not say that you were mad for being called a prude and you still sent him that nice email tells me that you have esteem problems. You are young, pretty and have a career going on. You have time to find someone who will treat you right.
This is the email that you should have sent:
I know that you wanted to stay with me while in town but I want you to find someplace else to stay. Despite all you meant to me, I live my own life now.
Short, still sweet but not as hopeful.
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I want us to be friends like we've been for the past couple months. I don't want us to sleep together, have expectations, and break our hearts all over again when it doesn't work out...because it won't. It was very hard for me not to give into you last weekend. I have always been attracted to you and that hasn't gone away. I was fighting a battle with myself all night and I did what I know was the right thing for me.
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This is a big no no. This tells me that he has a chance if he brings you some flowers, cries a little and tells you how much of a fool he was.
Baby, I am such a fool. You are the most wonderful thing that ever happened in my life and I just let you get away. I am so stupid(hits himself on head) I would do anything to be back in your life. I have found some jobs here in townthat I can take. Please, if you let me back in your life, I promise that I will get it right this time.
Don't let him take advantage. Listen to your peers at this board. Grab some courage. It is ok if he is hurt. That is his problem. I know it hurts you to hurt others but that cannot be helped and it has to be done.
Re: What the hell am I知 going to do?!?!?!?! twetifb: Just thought I'd update you guys and let you know that my stbx will not be staying with me this weekend. No, I didn't get up the backbone to tell him no. He decided to give me his ticket for the Bears game and stay in Florida because his grandmother is dying.
Re: What the hell am I知 going to do?!?!?!?! turning leaf: Hey tweety. I need to ask you about the detox thing. Fill me in. PM me :)
Re: What the hell am I知 going to do?!?!?!?! threetimeloser: Tweety,
I wouldn't mind knowing about it myself. I have lost tons of weight and I want to get ready for the spring biking season.
