Let me ask ya'll this... kev: Seeing as how most of us have had someone wrong us, unfortunately cheat on us...
Do you think that you could ever at LEAST have strong feelings for someone, and at the outside LOVE someone again?
I feel like my heart is so hardened. I love my ex as a best friend, and there will always be a special part of my heart that just loves her so much...but I feel so done with her.
I feel like i have so much to give to someone, but on the other hand, i feel so bad for thinking that i expect that other "someone" to do something bad to me...so i am back to the "hardened heart"...
I don't want to be like that. I know the feelings that I had when i was in love, and i want to feel at least Half that....this sounds so dumb, but I dont want to hurt. I don't want to fall for someone and get hurt.
anyway. that was my question, just wondering what everybody thinks. :-)
Re: Let me ask ya'll this... LostTeacher: i think i could love someone again.
but i think a part of my heart will always be with him. even if he is with someone else, there is a part that still loves him.
i hope that someone will be able to get inside and take that love away from my ex, because that is my biggest fear......that i will never let go of that tiny piece of love i hold for him, and i can't let it go to let someone else in.
LT
Re: Let me ask ya'll this... Rotteninphoenix: you hit it right on the money, LostTeacher....
Re: Let me ask ya'll this... LostTeacher: thanks........been going through a down spot, and trying to work through some of it again.
that is a sucky one to admit, especially after 14 months, but it's the truth, and i have to admit it somewhere.
LT
Re: Let me ask ya'll this... kipeachi: I myself have wondered this alot lately. I loved my x with all my heart, gave everything to him. I was cheated on, lied to. My trust was lost. Now I wonder if and when I find some one new, will I give them all my love? will I ever trust fully again? I think maybe in time, but then i dont' know? would love to hear advice on this one..........
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