eh... cc: Mmm...ok...I'm probably just being sensitive...but we just got back together, pretty sure anyway, last night...and I haven't seen him all day today...things are still rocky right now...shouldn't he be trying to spend as much time as he can smoothing things out, or do guys usually like to let stuff like that sort itself out...?
Re: eh... threetimeloser: *fingers crossed*
It is hard to say cc. What is he doing. Is he going about his daily routine, then most likely its normal but if he is out entertaining himself then you may want to evaluate furthur.
He might be thinking that since he patched up with you last night that everything is back to normal. Some people are able to just do that. Give it some more time. Don't over-analyze.
Re: eh... cc: He probably is just doing as he usually does.....but it would be nice to here here even a little Hi from him, you know??
I don't know.......I think I may be abit uneasy about us again...he wants to forget everything in the past happened, which I guess is fine...but I want to at least TALK about it first, he refuses to do that, he won't ever answer my questions...I asked him what made him think I loved my Ex more than him, he wouldn't answer. I asked why he didn't trust me, he didn't answer. Is it because he knows he's wrong, or does he just not want to tell me the reasons?
Re: eh... alonewith2: When my STBX and I reconcilled...he didn't really try to do anything out of what had become our daily routine...
I've read where others had said the same thing. Maybe some men don't know that there is more they could do?!!! Mine just kept saying, "I'm here, aren't I?"
I've got my fingers crossed for you. I hope things get better and more reassuring for you!
Re: eh... JNA: That could depend on a lot of things depending on the situation...
Such as...
Does he work or do you support him
Are you pressuring him for answers like drilling him with questions
Was he like this when you were with him before...May just be his way
Could be anything and only time will tell
If he wants to start fresh then do that and forget about the past for now...
Don't try to "Analyze" the situation
When we try too analyze things it tends to make us paranoid...
Just give it sometime and see what happens...If things are going well you will know
Just my 2-sense
JNA
